1. Never agree to a termination date for spousal support or alimony if the law does not require it. Make sure the wording in your divorce decree states that this issue has to be revisited in court before payments can stop. You may continue to need financial assistance from your ex-spouse past a date in your decree. You want to have the option of arguing against modification of support in court.

2. Never use the same attorney that your husband is using. So many women fall prey to this and end up regretting it later. Your husband’s attorney is being paid to protect your husband’s interests. You need an attorney who will protect your interests. Using one attorney will save money in the short-term but you will likely pay for it in the long-term.

3. If your husband assumes any debt that is jointly held, make sure your name is removed from the accounts. Do this before your divorce is final. If he refuses to pay after the divorce, you don’t want your credit score negatively affected by his defiance.

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